Posts Categorized: Peace

Out with the Old, Even Though It Doesn’t Seem All THAT Old

I guess “old” is relative. We live in the house that my family moved into in 1959. When my parents passed away, David and I moved into the house. We have neighbors to the left of us, who have been in that house for a couple of years, so not a new home for them. A couple of houses down from us, on the other side, people moved in a week or so ago; so, a new home for that family. So, “new” is rather relative.

Most of the appliances in our house are running along pretty smoothly. And, I’ve not looked into what the longevity is for our various appliances. And, of course, most appliances don’t give much of a warning that they’re on their last leg. Maybe the washer starts leaking. Possibly the air conditioner starts rattling. Loudly. Often times, our appliances give us a little warning. Or, they quietly breathe their last. And all the frozen food thaws out, and we just canNOT eat it all up fast enough.

When Kevin and Peter were here last, several weeks ago, David and Peter went to buy some Blue Bell ice cream. They put it into the freezer section of the refrigerator. The next day, the yummy green ice cream was more like a yummy green milk shake. Most things in the freezer were still pretty solid, but that was just a harbinger of disaster, as in “how fast can you eat up the rest of the food in the freezer?” Things softened and hardened, and, really, let’s don’t actually take a chance on a trip to the emergency to get our stomachs pumped. So you see where this is going.

We went to Lowe’s and Home Depot and then chose a new refrigerator/freezer.

We tried for a couple of days to keep the fridge door closed as much as possible and tried to cook things from the freezer that seemed like they might be thawing. I got a couple of ice chests to protect the cold/frozen food while we waited for the new fridge to arrive.  Then, the new refrigerator got delivered and they pulled the old fridge out and looked at the water hook-up and said, “That’s not acceptable.You’re going to have to get a plumber to come and attach the water.” So, they didn’t install it, and I called a plumber that I’d used before, and he came and looked at the water hook-ups and said, “This is exactly what it’s supposed to look like. It’s fine.” And by then, it was too late in the day for the new fridge to get installed, so we pushed the old fridge back into place and plugged it in, and then, when it chilled down again, we put the food that had been stowed in the ice chests, with lots of ice, back into the refrigerator.

 

And then (of course), they had to re-schedule bringing the new refrigerator, so that didn’t happen until the end of the week. That meant, on Friday morning, I had to put the food from the fridge back into the coolers, so they could stay chilled until the new fridge could get unloaded, brought into the garage, put together, partly, and then brought into the house, where it could get completely put together, get hooked up to the water line and the electrical outlet. And then they put the doors on and they brought the drawers and door compartments in, so I could put it all together on the inside and then, at last, I could put the food back into the brand-new refrigerator.

 

 

 

But first, of course, there’s always a “but first,” I said to the guys who’d brought the fridge and put it together, “you’ll take away the old fridge.” And they said, no, they didn’t do that. So I called David, who said, “Let me talk to them,” because when we bought the fridge, we’d also added that the fridge would be put together, installed properly, and the old fridge would be carted away, and we had paid to have that done. The paperwork for that was in David’s car (of course), but he talked to the guys and explained that we’d paid extra to have that old fridge taken away, and the young men, whether they believed him or not, took the old fridge. And, I suppose, they checked on it when they got back to the store.

 

The young men who brought in (and hooked up) the new fridge, also brought in several bins that are meant to go into spaces in the fridge doors. I got to decide where they should belong, and I guess we’ll decide over time, which ones would work best where. There are some pull-out drawers, also. And, the pull-out drawers in the previous fridge pulled out from the tops of the drawer handles. The new drawers pull out from the bottoms of the drawer handles. I’ve yet to remember that difference, and am still clonking my fingers on the tops of the drawers. It’s just been a week (REALLY!?!? just a week?) Still Clonking.

 

All adorned with the hallmarks of many parents/grandparents.

 

You provide streams of water in the hills and valleys, so that the donkeys and other wild animals can satisfy their thirst.
 Birds build their nests nearby and sing in the trees.
 From your home above you send rain on the hills and water the earth.
 You let the earth produce grass for cattle, plants for our food, wine to cheer us up, olive oil for our skin, and grain for our health.

Psalm 104:10-15

 

I Just Don’t Know What to Say

I don’t even know when it started. I was working on the computer, as though it was a normal sort of day. I don’t remember when I saw the information; when I saw the photos; when I read the words.

And I started getting information about our church’s children’s minister. I’ve known her for years. The couple were members at our church many years ago, and then they joined a different church. But, they would come back to us, often on Wednesday evenings, when we had classes for young school-agers.

She is a strong and determined woman; she birthed her children at home with a midwife. I’m quite impressed. One of her sons came to Fun with Friends, on Science Week, I think. A while back, I ran into her and her daughter, and we talked about her coming to the next Fun with Friends. But, Covid spoiled that idea. Then, when our new pastor came on board and began to look for staff folks, this girl showed up, accepted the offer, and is now  our Children’s Minister.

This woman’s parents were born in Uvalde. This woman has relatives whose children attend the middle school there. They are physically safe, but how do they get over, and beyond, this loss.

I don’t even know how to talk about this. Or write about this.

I’ve looked at the children’s photos. I’ve seen the photos of the families, the police officers, the teachers in that classroom.

School is out, now. Everyone will have the summer to work hard to pull themselves together, again. They will make a space for all the children, all the teachers, all the parents, all the grandparents, all the aunts and uncles. all the siblings, all the next door neighbors, all the shop people in the town, all the police officers.

It’s hard work. But they can do it.

The first day of school might be the most difficult. For everyone. For every teacher. For every child. For every parent. How can a child feel safe in a place where danger struck so hard? How can anyone?

 

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Amen.

—St. Francis of Assisi

 

 

 

I Think I’ve Done All I Can

A couple of years ago (or so), I discovered Jigsaw Explorer. Every day, there are two jigsaw puzzles to work, and I get to decide how many pieces I want to be in each puzzle. Plus there are archived puzzles from months and months earlier that I can access, also. Today’s puzzle was a gardening photograph. I really liked the picture because it reminded me of my own recent gardening experiences.
At this point, I’ve planted everything I plan to plant. I trimmed plants; I watered and fed plants. I think I’m done purchasing plants. (We’ll see.)

 

Now, it’s just going to be a matter of keeping all those lovely plants alive. Last summer was much milder than the usual scorching temperatures we often experience in Central Texas.
As the summers come and go, I’ve gotten better about buying plants that will grow in Central Texas, and placing plants in spaces where they’ll thrive. And, where I can help them thrive.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I was REALLY frustrated with this little  plant stand. Several weeks ago, a strong wind blew it over and several pots were broken. I carefully picked it up and put the shelves back in. I was careful to put SEVERAL pots on the bottom shelf to anchor the thing. I had a tray of Asian Jasmine on one of the middle shelves. Then, again, a week or so ago, a big wind gust knocked it over AGAIN! Another pot broke; everything got tossed onto the patio. AGAIN. But, never again. I took it all apart, threw away the covering and the shelves. And I’m done with it.

 
Here are some sunbeams illuminating the new, red lantana that I bought. They’re thriving, along with the dwarf pomegranate that’s growing at the top of the photo.

After all, who is Paul? Who is Apollos? No more than servants through whom you came to believe as the Lord gave each man his opportunity. I may have done the planting and Apollos the watering, but it was God who made the seed grow! The planter and the waterer are nothing compared with him who gives life to the seed. Planter and waterer are alike insignificant, though each shall be rewarded according to his particular work.

1 Corinthians 3:5-8 (Phillips Translation)

Nine. One. What?

I’ve been spending lots of time outside, working in the yard, planting plants, organizing the potting bench, re-working beds, that sort of thing.

A couple of days ago, I was planting some new Lantana plants. They are hot-weather hardy, and very sturdy. The ones I bought recently are named “Hot-Blooded Red.”

The weather was nice, and I’d gotten lots of planting done. I have a wheeled, garden cart that I can sit on, so I don’t have to try to get up from the ground when I’m moving from place to place to put plants in beds or dig up  weeds. I was putting those Lantana plants at the right-hand corner of the front of the house. There were three plants, and I was digging up the dirt and getting the small area ready.

I was diligent, working that dirt, pulling up any weeds that had taken root there, and arranging the three plants in the space.

But, I kept hearing, or I thought I was hearing, someone saying my name. It was eerie. It was bizarre. It was quite strange.

“Gayle.” “Gayle.” “Gayle, can you hear me?” “Are you all right, Gayle?”

So, the sound really wasn’t my imagination. But, what? Where? Why?

I finally realized that the sound was coming from the pocket at the front of my overalls. Hmmmm.

I pulled my phone from my pocket and saw, at the top of the screen, the numbers 911.

“Hello,” I said, a little startled. And someone responded, “Gayle, are you all right?”

“I am all right,” I responded, warily.

“We’re just checking on you, and making sure you’re okay.”

Apparently, I had pocket-dialed my phone. And I called 911.

“I AM SO SORRY!” I said, when I realized what I’d done.

“I’m working outside in my yard, and I am fine, and I guess the fabric in the pocket of my overalls dialed the numbers. I’m very, very sorry.”

The young man (and he sounded pretty young), was gracious and not at all angry (it seemed). And, frankly, I think he’ll have a really good story to tell to his co-workers, his family members, and his neighbors.

Let me tell you about the time this lady (let’s hope he doesn’t say old lady) dialed 911 when her phone was in her pocket, while she was planting flowers.”

I guess I could use a piece of tape to attach an index card (trimmed to fit) to the front of the phone. I’d still be able to listen to podcasts and audio books while I worked. And, I’d be able to hear the phone ring, and could answer it.

I’m certainly embarrassed. I hate the idea that I took up time that a First Responder could certainly have used for some task that was much more important than chatting with me.

 

 

A teacher of the Law came up and tried to trap Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to receive eternal life?”

Jesus answered him, “What do the Scriptures say? How do you interpret them?”

The man answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind’; and ‘Love your neighbor as you love yourself.’”

“You are right,” Jesus replied; “do this and you will live.”

But the teacher of the Law wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “Who is my neighbor?”

Jesus answered, “There was once a man who was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho when robbers attacked him, stripped him, and beat him up, leaving him half dead.  It so happened that a priest was going down that road; but when he saw the man, he walked on by on the other side.  In the same way a Levite also came there, went over and looked at the man, and then walked on by on the other side.  But a Samaritan who was traveling that way came upon the man, and when he saw him, his heart was filled with pity.  He went over to him, poured oil and wine on his wounds and bandaged them; then he put the man on his own animal and took him to an inn, where he took care of him.  The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Take care of him,’ he told the innkeeper, ‘and when I come back this way, I will pay you whatever else you spend on him.’”

And Jesus concluded, “In your opinion, which one of these three acted like a neighbor toward the man attacked by the robbers?”

The teacher of the Law answered, “The one who was kind to him.”

Jesus replied, “You go, then, and do the same.”

Luke 10:25-37 (Good News Translation)

 

I don’t know where a 911 call goes when it comes in. I’m wondering if my pocket-dialed 911 would go to the Fire Station that’s closest to me. I should find out. I should take them some cookies.

Where Are My Gardening Gloves!?!

It’s spring all over the place! The weather’s pretty nice. Mostly. The grass is greening up. The trees are leafing out!!

And I want to plant things.

So, I went to a nursery. And another one. And another one. And, I’d already been to a couple of them, a week or so ago.

I did some yard work one day. Then, I did some yard work all day, one day. So, then I could hardly move. Just as well; the weather turned a little chilly.

But, Thursday, the day was great! I went to all the nurseries, including the one that’s ‘way out of town.

The basics of the yard were put in place by my dad, so many years ago. There are two large trees in the front yard and two in the back. There’s a hedge in a planter across half of the house. There are ferns on the north, shaded side of the house. I’ve added some things to the bed on the south side of the house. Most of what I purchase are in planters on the patio.

 

 

And another one bites the dust. When I came home today (from all the nursery shopping), I found these guys cutting down another great big tree, a couple of houses down from us. It was a casualty of the mega-freeze, February before last. The pale circle that you can see in front of the workers is the small wood chips that the other tree guys made when they chipped down the stump from that tree. The tree shadow you see is from the tree in our side yard. I think those were the only trees lost from our block.

 

 

 

 Ask rain from the Lord in the season of the spring rain, from the Lord who makes the storm clouds, who gives showers of rain to you, the vegetation in the field to everyone.

Zachariah 10:1 (New Revised Standard Version)

 

Last week, hardly any trees were leafing out. Now, this week, almost all of them are.

Why Is “The Hard Way” the Most Effective Way

Yes, I’m a Senior Adult woman who’s been cooking and baking for many years. And yet . . .

I’d been working hard at some sewing and cleaning and house stuff, and I noticed what time it was. I’d thawed some dinner for David, and I checked to see how that was going and then to find what else I should/could add to the main dish. I got out a roll to also thaw, and found some frozen vegetables to add, too.

I checked the suggested temperature and cooking time. I opened a cabinet to get something to put those vegetables on, to bake in the oven, popped them in, and set the timer on my phone so I’d know when to go back and retrieve them. Then I went back to that cleaning work.

When the timer went off (and I felt so well-organized to have remembered to set that timer), I went back to the kitchen. I opened the oven to to this:

The item I used to hold the broccoli tots was the glass lid to one of my large casserole dishes. And while I’m pretty sure that I’ve baked things in that casserole dish, even with its lid, I’m guessing that the lid itself wasn’t really intended to be a baking utensil by itself.

So, here it is: glass pieces and shards, from the top rack to the bottom of the oven. And broccoli tots from the top shelf to the floor of the oven. I turned off the oven and left it open to cool. I went back a while later, removed all the glass, all the tots, and threw everything away.

And, obviously, I also need to clean the oven.

 

I removed the oven liner, which was covered in shards. I guess I might have been able to wash and clean all the shards off, but that seemed maybe a little dangerous. I threw it away, too. I had a second liner still in its box. I got that new one, and trimmed it to fit the oven floor.

There were more broccoli tots in the freezer (the last of the broccoli tots).

I got another glass container. I really felt a little anxious about this one, but I kept reminding myself of all the other things I’ve baked, successfully in the oven (meat loaf, bread), using that same glass pan.

I turned the oven back on, put the pan, with tots, in, and set the timer on my phone. Again. I kept going back and looking, and everything was fine. The container didn’t smash into shards. The broccoli tots baked nicely.

The oven liner was the last on in the box, so I ordered more.

There is a right time for everything, and everything on earth will happen at the right time.

There is a time to be born and a time to die.
There is a time to plant and a time to pull up plants.
 There is a time to kill and a time to heal.
There is a time to destroy and a time to build.
 There is a time to cry and a time to laugh.
There is a time to be sad and a time to dance with joy.
 There is a time to throw weapons down and a time to pick them up.
There is a time to hug someone and a time to stop holding so tightly.
 There is a time to look for something and a time to consider it lost.
There is a time to keep things and a time to throw things away.
 There is a time to tear cloth and a time to sew it.
There is a time to be silent and a time to speak.
 There is a time to love and a time to hate.
There is a time for war and a time for peace.

 

 

 

 

 

I Do Miss the Sound of Waves

I’m taking a couple of classes in the Lifetime Learning program at Baylor, designed for senior adults to keep our minds sharp, or sharper. I’ve finished the “Daughters of WWII Vets” series, and now am enjoying “The Oceans in a Changing Climate System.” I signed up for this one because, well, because the teacher for the series is a friend from church, an Assistant Professor in the Geosciences Department at Baylor. And, I really enjoyed an Oceanography class I took in college.

That Oceanography class was one of the most interesting science classes I’ve ever taken. The class was a large one, filling up a very large classroom. One of the requirements for the class was for us to visit the Oceanography center, which was on a small island in the middle of a bay on the windward side of Oahu. The lab class was offered every Saturday and Sunday during the semester, and we had to sign up for just one day, and we would spent most of the day there. “Bring a sack lunch,” they said. “Wear clothes that you don’t mind getting wet. And be sure to wear sturdy shoes that you also don’t mind getting wet.”

David drove me over to the meeting place. I found a student who was in my History Lab class, so I had a friend to chat with and work with.  A large barge sort of thing chugged over to pick us up, and then chugged it’s way back across to that small island. We did some experiments, we listened to a lecture, we rode on that barge, which had a large, small-holed net attached to the rear. Then we brought up all the small fauna that had gotten trapped in the net. We carefully looked at the bay’s sea life, and then released them back into the water, I guess so that the next group of students could find them, too.

At one point, we were given, in pairs, a “Look Box.” The box was made of four pieces of wood, each about a foot square, and painted white. There were cut-out hand holds at the tops of two of the pieces. And there was a piece of clear plastic attached at the bottom of the box. That part of the bay was shallow, and when we held the box down in the water, we could easily see what was growing and living on the bay’s floor.

As I took my turn with the box, it was like wearing a giant pair of goggles. I was carefully walking, a few steps at a time. And then, I stepped on the edge of a piece of coral. My foot slipped off, and my ankle bone scraped against that coral. I looked down through the box and saw a trail of blood, drifting from my ankle bone. And, just as I was looking at the blood, the teacher said, “And, in the spring, sharks come into the bay here to spawn.”

It was fall, so I didn’t really have anything to worry about, and, of course, the water in which we were walking wasn’t nearly deep enough for sharks. But, it was a bit unnerving.

We returned to the island and had a break before the next project. We’d been told that there was a First Aid area, if we needed something, so my friend and I walked around until we found the First Aid place. The nurse who was there took one look at my bloody foot and fussed, angrily, at me. “You were supposed to wear shoes,” she said frowning.

That’s how bloody my foot was. The nurse didn’t even realize that I had my shoe on.

Once we cleared that up, she did clean the cut, which really was pretty small, and put on a Band-Aid, or two, so my ankle looked okay. My shoe did not.

Eventually, it was time to get back on that barge one last time, and putt-putt our way back to Oahu. David was waiting there, and did notice the shoe. Hard to miss.

Back at home, he took off the nurse’s Band-Aid, and did a more thorough job of cleaning out the slit. Everything healed up, and no one had to amputate my foot.

But, I thoroughly enjoyed my Oceanography class. I even thought, for just a moment, that I might could change my major to Oceanography. Since I had only my student teaching to complete, and one more History class, it didn’t seem all that realistic.

 

 

You alone are the Lord, Creator of the heavens and all the stars, Creator of the earth and those who live on it, Creator of the ocean and all its creatures. You are the source of life, praised by the stars that fill the heavens.

Nehemiah 9:6 (Contemporary English Version)

 

Different states have different degree plans for majors. At Baylor, I got to skip one science class because I had a good science test score (Biology) on my SAT. And, I chose Western Civ. to fulfill my history requirement. At University of Hawaii, I needed an additional science, and it was that amazing Oceanography class. And, Western Civ. wasn’t going to be enough. I could choose between Eastern Civ. and World Civ. I went with World. All these classes had a section I and a section II. And, we had History Labs, because our class met in (and I’m not making this up) Varsity Theater. I had read that on the university’s class schedule. I was astonished to see that Varsity Theater was actually a movie theater. And, the theater’s owners were savvy enough to open up the snack counter and to operate the popcorn machine. The class met at 11:00 a.m. and many students would have been in a couple of classes before this one, and would be hungry. The professor let us go at 15 ’til the hour. I always arrived early enough to get the end seat of the last row, because this was my first class of the day, and I had to walk uphill and across campus to get to my next class.

And, we had History Labs, because, in a movie theater, there’s not much space for asking questions, and it’s certainly not a venue for testing. So, each History Lab had a Teaching Assistant for discussions and taking tests, and 20 or 30 students.

Just Think of All the Things I’d Have Missed If I Didn’t Go to the Library

I often see new books at the library that catch my attention. Sometimes, I’ll pick up a book that looks interesting and leave it sitting around my house for three weeks, when I should return it. Or, I could renew it, even if I’ve not ever opened it, but think that I might.

If no other library patron asks for that book, I could even renew it for a second time, and keep it for NINE weeks. At which point I really do have to return it, whether or not anyone wants it. But then, I could go back in a few days, check it out again, and, really, could renew it twice more, but by that time, I’ve come to understand that I’m not truly going to read that book.

A couple of weeks ago, I was headed to the computers (to see if I’d remembered to turn in a book), when I passed a display of books. One of them caught my eye:

I thought this looked interesting.

THE CALLIGRAPHER’S SECRET

Rafik Schami

And the title page says: Translated from German by Anthea Bell

It seemed a little odd that a book that’s set in the Middle East (Damascus) would be written in German. Maybe it was written in a Middle Eastern language, then translated into German, and now is available in English.

To begin with, books that aren’t originally written in English and then translated into English, sometimes have a different rhythm to them. And for the first few pages, I needed to adapt, I guess, to the different cadence. And the whole different culture and descriptions and, rhythm, of the sentences slowed down the reading. I’m getting better at it.

And it is a very thick book.

I feel like I’ve been reading and reading and reading, and I’m not close to being halfway through it.

From almost the very beginning, I’ve known that a woman was going to run away. The reasons haven’t been explained, but I know it’s going to happen. And whenever I think It’s going to be soon. She’ll be gone before long. I’m wrong. She went to work with as a seamstress. She’s gotten married. She seems to like her husband. I don’t know what’s going to make her leave. I just know that she’s going to leave.

 

I was several chapters in before the Calligrapher showed up. And, based on the title of the book, he seems like an important element to the story. But, so far, there’s no connection between him and the woman who is the female protagonist. I’ve seen her name from almost the first page of the book. I’ve seen her as a child, as a young adult who worked for the most important seamstress in town, and now as a wife.

Obviously, I’ve got lots of pages to go.

I’m intrigued. Maybe she’ll leave and never return. But it seems like she’ll be back on the pages of the story, even if it won’t be with her husband or other family members.

And, really! what IS the Calligraphers Secret!?!

I will have to let you know.

 

There was a disciple in Damascus by the name of Ananias. The Master spoke to him in a vision: “Ananias.”

“Yes, Master?” he answered.

“Get up and go over to Straight Avenue. Ask at the house of Judas for a man from Tarsus. His name is Saul. He’s there praying. He has just had a dream in which he saw a man named Ananias enter the house and lay hands on him so he could see again.”

 Ananias protested, “Master, you can’t be serious. Everybody’s talking about this man and the terrible things he’s been doing, his reign of terror against your people in Jerusalem! And now he’s shown up here with papers from the Chief Priest that give him license to do the same to us.”

But the Master said, “Don’t argue. Go! I have picked him as my personal representative to non-Jews and kings and Jews. And now I’m about to show him what he’s in for—the hard suffering that goes with this job.”

 

I guess all sorts of interesting things have happened in Damascus.

Flowers and Trees

The morning temperatures have been a little frosty, in the 30’s early in the morning, but the afternoons have been springlike. Well, for a couple of days. But Thursday and Friday had afternoon temperatures in the mid 70’s, which is perfect weather for working outside.

First, I hung the white pots back on the front porch railing. They come down when I put up the Christmas greenery and bows and lights. They’re back up now, with winter-hardy yellow violas . (Violas are like miniature pansies.)

Next, I put yellow pansies in the bed in front of the porch. Pansies are sturdy flowers, the kind that made it through last February.

I bought the pansies and violas back in the fall, as soon as they arrived in the nursery. There are all sorts of colors and varieties of pansies and violas. I like the ones that have petals that are all yellow, so that’s what I purchased: all-yellow pansies and all-yellow violas.

And, in a sadder situation, the tree next door could not recover from last February’s deep, deep freeze.

The tree is a variety of ash. I tried to determine what the life expectancy of an ash tree is, and I got anywhere from 25-40 years to 250 years. But there seems to be a wide variety of ash trees, some have short lives and others long lives. When I looked up pecan, I got anywhere from 250 years to 400 years, so our backyard should be nice and shady for quite some time.

 

As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.

Isaiah 55:10-12 (New International Version)

 

Yes, it’s one of my favorite passages. I do so enjoy the exuberance of those trees being so excited.

Science tells us that trees truly do communicate with each other in forests. So, I’m imagining that the root systems of the trees near my neighbor’s stump are singing together, also, but maybe something like a dirge.

Lay Flat to Dry

I was doing some laundry. I’d looked through my closet and picked up several sweaters and pullovers that I’d been wearing when the weather had gotten chillier. (Of course, right now, it’s like springtime outside.)

I gathered up the heavier things and put them in the laundry basket. I also picked up a gray pullover (with a nice tall collar that really keeps my neck warm). I piled them up and then stopped to check their care labels. I very much like the labels that say to wash and then dry. I got to the gray pullover and read, with dismay, the care label: wash in cold water and lay flat to dry.

Nooooooo. First of all, I don’t really have a place large enough to lay a sweater down for hours while it air dries. Whyever would I have even bought a sweater without looking at the care label first?!?!?

Then I looked at the label in the neck of the sweater; the manufacturer. Eddie Bauer. I’d ordered it from their online catalog, and, I’m quite sure, the description of the sweater had not included the care instructions. I’ll not make that mistake again. But, I’d made that mistake now. And the decision I made was to wash and dry the thing, and see how it came out.

It came out great. It looked exactly the same as when I’d first put it in the washing machine. And now, after coming out of the dryer, it looked promising. I tried it on and, TA-DAH! It fit exactly the same as it had before.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that every piece of clothing I purchase that says “Lay flat to dry” is going to come out of the washer and dryer looking perfect. But, I’m avoiding the potential disaster by being diligent about checking care labels before I spend that money. And, if I’m ordering something that doesn’t have the care information listed on the website, I can order it and then send it back if it has that label that says “Lay flat to dry.”

 

 

 

 

yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus— that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains.  Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.

Philemon 1:9-11

 

Thesaurus.com says “usefulness” is a synonym for “responsibility.” It is, I guess, irresponsible not to pay attention to the instructions for a garment to remain usable and useful. But, if I had to follow the instructions on the sweater, I’d have rarely worn it, knowing that I’d have to to through all the steps of making the sweater clean. Now, I can wear it happily, knowing that I can clean it whenever the sweater needs it.

And, I should also be looking for the useful people in my life, the people who help, encourage, and support other folks.