Posts Categorized: Patience

Today Feels a Lot Like Yesterday, and the Day Before That, and, Most Likely, Tomorrow

Early on, in this time of pandemic, as I talked with Kevin and Jeremy, we commented on how almost all of the newspeople, reporters, everyone, said, “Unprecedented.” “It’s just unprecendented.” “Completely unprecedented.” And so on.

And I said that there are surely more words that might be appropriate, and haven’t we used up “unprecedented?” So I went to Thesaurus.com, where I found words like  “remarkable,” “uncommon,”  and “unparalleled” (along with several others). But the word I like best (and which was at the top of the list of appropriate synonyms), was “bizarre.”

“There’s no more toilet paper!” “Bizarre!”

“I can only purchase two cartons of eggs!” “Bizarre!”

We just don’t feel comfortable going to (“the movies,” “a football game,” “our favorite restaurant,” “church” “add your own frustrating destination here,”). It’s just BIZARRE! The Thesaurus.com website has a brief explanation of the possible origin of the word, but it’s not very interesting.

One thing that I’ve found, well, maybe not “bizarre,” but certainly “different from usual,” is what’s happening at Target. I can understand how they, and really, most stores, had to put in their orders for back-to-school supplies many months earlier. And, there is most certainly a need for school supplies, but going back to school is different this year. Target did get ready for back-to-school shoppers, with school lists for different age groups, backpacks, lots and lots of pencils, pens, paper, composition books, rulers, scissors, et. al. And there indeed were shoppers. But there are also lots of school supplies still lying around. And, the space where school supplies have been is now being taken up by, of course, Halloween stuff.

 

 

Everything on earth has its own time and its own season.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 (Contemporary English Version)

I stopped by my church a couple of days ago, to drop off some masks, which will go to the nearby elementary school. As I was leaving, I saw a couple of friends in the parking lot. We chatted a few minutes (all masked and distanced) and I said, “How much longer do you think this will last?” And they said, “Maybe six more months.” Bizarre.

I Think I Might Have a Stalker

I like to work outside. The weather’s nice right now, and there are fall-ish things to do, and I think that working in the yard is good for me, from a physical standpoint and a mental standpoint, too.

I enjoy the flora.

 

I like the fauna.

Last week, I was working in the back yard, trimming some lower hanging limbs in a space where I have a garden bench.

This is a nice shady spot and is particularly pleasant this time of year, when the temperatures are lower (much less sweatier) and I can sit and read. As I was trimming and neatening up the area, a bird flew by me and landed on that larger limb that’s running across the top of the photograph. Yes, right there in front of me. I took a step toward that limb and the bird just sat there, as if challenging me to bother him. I was amazed. I took another step forward. He cocked his head and turned and flew . . . to that next limb, as if to imply that, yes, he saw me, but he wasn’t at all bothered that I was right there!

He wasn’t somebody’s pet parakeet. He was a wild bird. He should have, I thought, been much more reluctant to be anywhere near me. Maybe someone else in the neighborhood feeds birds, and he just assumed that all of those big folks are regularly handing out treats.

I lopped off a couple more limbs, then gathered up my tools and walked up to the patio at the back of the house. And then, and I am not making this up, he followed me.

 

 

Apparently, he’s gotten bored with it all. I’ve been outside a couple of days this week, and I haven’t seen him. Maybe he’s marshaling his forces and planning to return at some point, with reinforcements. I’ll send updates if he shows up again.

 

How lovely is your dwelling place, Lord Almighty!

My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the Lord; my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.
Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young—
a place near your altar, Lord Almighty, my King and my God.

Psalm 84:1-3 (New International Version)

Hmmm. I’ve been saying “him,” but it might be “her.” Maybe I should be more charitable, and remember that having a home, a nest, a safe place, is universally important.

I Think It’s Supposed to Rain Soon

Since it’s on most folks’ minds these days, I looked up some quotes about fire.

The most tangible of all visible mysteries – fire.
Leigh Hunt

Fire is a natural symbol of life and passion, though it is the one element in which nothing can actually live.
Susanne Katherina Langer

A small spark can start a great fire
Emmet Fox

Fire will attract more attention than any other cry for help.
Jean-Michel Basquiat

People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes.
Abigail van Buren

How can we extinguish a fire if we don’t first cut off the fuel that ignites the inferno?
Arun Gandhi

Fire has always been and, seemingly, will always remain, the most terrible of the elements.
Harry Houdini

Burn not your house to rid it of the mouse.
Latin proverb

Where there’s smoke, there’s fire.
Latin proverb

It also concerns you when the nearest wall is burning.
Latin proverb

I guess if we (or someone with “know-how”) really could make it rain, some folks would be thrilled and others would be angry/disappointed/frustrated. But for now, the folks in Oregon would be in the “thrilled” category. And we would be thrilled for them.

 

For lack of wood the fire goes out,
    and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.

Proverbs 26:20 (New Revised Standard Version)

 

When situations become tense and out-of-one’s-control, quarreling often ramps up. How frustrated and scared and anxious they all must feel–the homeowners and fire fighters and local officials and friends and family members, close and distant.

My sister, in the Seattle area, says that, while they are safely at a distance from the fires, the skies are yellow and dystopian, and the sun looks like a drawing that a young child might draw of a big red ball.

You Are NOT Going to BELIEVE What Happened!!

It rained.

That may not seem terribly amazing to you, depending on where you live. Where I live, rainfall is pretty scarce in the summertime. And, yes, I do know that it’s September now, but summer isn’t done with us yet. Not by a long shot.

So, when rain is predicted at this time of year, we’re skeptical. Really skeptical. Oh, yeah, sure, the sky might cloud up a little. The sidewalks might get a little damp. But we’re not going to stop watering the outdoor plants.

And, rain was predicted this week. I was not particularly excited Tuesday evening, as I crawled into bed and pulled up the covers and went to sleep. Briefly. Then it really did rain. And, not just some rain. Enormously loud thunder, crackling lightening, and wind whipping rain against the windows. Really. It happenedCheck the weather data .

I was so excited. I’d gone out a few days ago and scouted out all the pecan trees that were growing around the yard. Not, of course, trees that we had planted. Trees that had come up because the squirrels had planted them, back last fall. I’ve mentioned that before, I’m sure. When the pecans fall, in the autumn, squirrels pick them up and bury them, so that they will be able to get them in the dead of winter, for holiday feasting. But, because they are squirrels, and have teeny, tiny, little brains, they have NO IDEA where those tasty pecans are. So, when the springtime rains come, those pecans, which are, essentially pecan seeds, begin to sprout and grow. ALL. AROUND. THE. YARD. In flower beds. In potted plants. In the garden with all the thyme plants.

EV’RYWHERE!

And here you go–the beginnngs of several pecan trees, who will NOT live to see another day.

 

 

 

After the giant rainstorm in the early hours of Wednesday, and heavy and light rainfall all day, I was pretty sure that the ground was soggy. All Thursday morning, I checked to see if the rain had stopped. It was lighter, but still constant. Finally, mid-afternoon, no more rain. I put on my overalls, rushed out of the house, grabbed the Sharp-shooter shovel, and went to work. It was soooo easy. Quick work.

And, really, you can’t just clip those entrenched trees off at ground level. They are determined to LIVE! Those roots are pretty sturdy, and they’ll just keep on putting out leaves. You really have to dig them up. I did my best.

It’s an important matter from a foundation standpoint. Those little pecan saplings, if left to grow, will grow. If left unchecked, they’ll damage the foundation.

If only we could teach the squirrels to plant their pecans in appropriate places in the yard.

 

There is an occasion for everything, and a time for every activity under heaven: a time to give birth and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to uproot …

Ecclesiastes 3:1,2 (Christian Standard Bible Translation)

 

If we lived in a cabin in a forest, then we could let lots of pecan trees grow. But we live in a house in a city, so we’re working to make good choices for our flora, without trying to make life harder for the furry fauna.

My Tire Was Tired

Back in June, Kevin and April and Peter came for a Father’s Day visit. We had talked with them about the problem of our out-dated garage door opener situation and the suspended shelves that would, eventually, have to be removed in order to have the newer-type of garage door openers installed. They offered to take on the task of removing those shelves. They spent a couple of days taking down boxes that contained some of Kevin’s things and some of Jeremy’s things and some of our things. And, then, the more complicated process of removing the shelves themselves, and the supports from which the shelves were suspended.

It took a while.

We found places (some temporary) for the boxes that came down. But there was quite a bit of lumber, scraps, large nails, etc. that we couldn’t really reuse. April and I took the usable wood to Waco ReStore, a place where donations of new materials are used for Habitat for Humanity homes, and usable recycled materials are sold at discount prices, enabling people to work on their own homes and also keeping those things out of the local landfill.

Still, there was quite a bit of junky debris that we loaded into their car and my trunk and took to the local citywide recycling center, which also takes scrap and junk that might be too bulky to fit in our regular trash containers. We tossed that stuff into large metal bins

All that happened on Thursday and Friday. Saturday morning, I went out to run some errands and restock the cabinets and fridge.

My car has a space on the dashboard where I can see what my speed is. But, it’s also a sort of information center. If someone gets out of the car and doesn’t completely close the car’s door, an alert pops up, as I might be driving away, that says, “Door Ajar,” and the little diagram shows me which door isn’t closed properly. If the temperature drops, it will warn me that there might be ice on the road, due to the cold. It doesn’t, however, realize that there hasn’t been any rain, so, no ice. Still, if there ever is rain and freezing temps, I’ll be glad for the information.

This is the tire track that the flat tire on the car made. I took this photo a couple of days ago, in other words, it’s been there for two months. We’ve had rain, some of it quite heavy. And, there have been lots of intense sunshine. And still, the tire print is still there. Quite clearly.

It also tells me if a tire is low, and it identifies which tire needs air. That is what I saw while I was out on errands. It said, “Tire pressure low.” So, I realized that, when I was done with my errands and got back home, I should let David know, as he is the tire guy for us.

I made several stops, the last one being Target, close to home. As I drove that last mile home, the car seemed to be driving rather rough, and when I got home, I drove the car into the driveway, stopping before going into the garage. When I got out and looked, that tire seemed, rather, sort of, quite flat.

I fetched David. And said, “The car always gives me plenty of warning. It said, “Tire pressure is low,” not “Tire is completely flat!”

So, the jack has to come out and lift the car. The lug nuts have to come off and the very flat tire removed. The doughnut tire has to be attached. And the car has to go off to get a new tire.

During all this, Kevin says, “Remember yesterday, when we were at the local recycling place? And April said, ‘There are lots of nails lying around here.'”

Yes, we did remember that. So, I’d been driving around all morning on a tire that had a nail. And the accompanying hole.

 

 

Our counsel is that you warn the freeloaders to get a move on. Gently encourage the stragglers, and reach out for the exhausted, pulling them to their feet. Be patient with each person, attentive to individual needs.

1 Thessalonians 5:14 (The Message Translation)

 

A few days after Kevin and April got home, Kevin called me. Seems like April also got a nail in one of her tires, too. Fortunately, they discovered it before she drove it to death; it must have been a pretty small nail. And, I’m grateful that people in my family treat me with patience.

Alexander!

I’ve been a fan of Alexander Hamilton since high school. Part of our Junior year curriculum included American History. At some point, we got the assignment to write about an American Revolutionary figure. I don’t know if I chose Alexander Hamilton, or if my teacher made the assignments. However that happened, he was my guy. And this wasn’t a huge research project, it was just a report, a couple of pages or so long.

When I was just three years old, my parents purchased a set of encyclopedias, thinking that they would be a great help to me and whatever sibling came along (turned out to be JoAnne). And the encyclopedias were helpful. For example, at some point, when I was in elementary school, I awoke in the night with the panicky realization that I’d forgotten about a report I was supposed to write a about the sun or moon, or something spaceish. I crept into the den, pulled out the appropriate volume, and sat in my closet (which, thank goodness had a light in it), and wrote the report. So, really helpful.

Years later, when I got the Hamilton assignment, I started with the encyclopedia, reading the entry and then making an outline (as English teachers for a couple of years, or more, had drummed into us). Because my dad had a love of books and a love of history, there was also a one-volume History of the American Revolution, sitting on the built-in shelves, and, I think, another book, whose title I can’t recall. I read through all those, made notes, plugged the information into my outline, and wrote a rough draft. The next evening, I went through it again, and then wrote the final draft to turn in the next day in class.

The day after that, we all trooped into the classroom and sat ourselves down in our chair desks. I was in the second chair in my row. Our teacher walked over to me and handed me my Hamilton report.

“Would you please come up front and read your report,” she said. Hmmmm. It had an “A” on it, so I didn’t think I was in trouble. But of course I did what she asked. I read it all and then sat down.

The teacher stood up and said, “THAT is what a well-researched report should sound like. Copying an entry from an encyclopedia is NOT what I assigned.” And she stalked back to her desk and snatched up the other reports and handed them back. A friend who sat in front of me leaned back and whispered, “What did you do?”

I leaned forward and said, “I had a few books, and I read about Hamilton. And then I made an outline and used all the information I’d read and wrote the report. What did you do?” I asked.

“I copied it from the encyclopedia,” she said.

I like to read, and I like to write. For many years, I wrote preschool Sunday School curriculum and Missions curriculum, and articles and support pieces. That friend, whom I occasionally see at a local sandwich shop, is a CPA. A ‘way different skill set from mine.

 

 

Put your heart and soul into every activity you do, as though you are doing it for the Lord himself and not merely for others.

Colossians 3:23 (The Passion Translation)

 

When I learned that there was going to be a Broadway musical about Hamilton, I really wanted to make a trip to New York. But I suppose that those shows would have been sold out for, possibly, longer than I might still be alive. So when I heard that they had actually filmed a version, and that it was actually going to be televised, I was pretty excited. Kevin and April have Disney+ and I thought that they might let me come up on July 3 and watch it. Then I looked and discovered that a month’s subscription to Disney+ was about $7.00 or so, which is less than the cost of a tank of gas to Fort Worth and back. Of course, I subscribed. I’ve watched it three times. So far.

Meanwhile, back to that set of encyclopedias. When JoAnne, who was five grades behind me in school, needed to write a report about satellites, she went straight to them. The entry said that, “The moon is a satellite of the earth. And the earth is a satellite of the sun.” Not exactly what she was looking for.

Distracted Thinking

We’ve heard about distracted driving, that lack of concentration while driving a car when we should most certainly be paying attention to the car, the road, the signs and signals. Of course, on a long, cross-country trip, we might have a lesser level of concentration, and we should STOP IT!! We should STAY CONCENTRATING.

My problem is more of an “at home” problem. I sometimes, often, or maybe usually, get lost in thought. Not important thought. Just … thought.

Maybe … when I’m working in the yard. I start out pulling weeds from the front flower bed, for example. I might also be listening to an audio book. Then, at some point, I realize I’ve completely lost the thread of whatever plot points have been flowing into my ears in the last ten to fifteen minutes. And, when the story’s next sentence is: “Margaret came back into the room and said that dinner was ready,” I might think: “Margaret? Who’s Margaret? When did Margaret join the plot?”

And it’s not like pulling weeds is that distracting. I just end up thinking about how I need to call my sister. That sort of thing.

Sometimes, I make a nice list of what’s for dinner for the week. Sometimes, not. In that case, I look through the stuff in the freezer and think, “Tonight, this, and then tomorrow night, that.” In the meantime, I’ll have thought about a score or so of other things I need to do, and some of them get done, and some have to be shelved. And then, when tomorrow night comes, and I’ve thought about a dozen other important things, I think, “Dinner? What was the plan?” And I have to dig through stuff in the freezer all over again.

Peter was here for several days. Many of the things he’s accustomed to doing, especially on weekends, haven’t been available recently. We ran our errands, all masked up. We made cookies, he got to play with a kid next door, we watched some favorite videos, and he read whole lot. He and David went to a nearby park, early in the morning when it was cooler and only one other family was there. And, on Saturday afternoon, they were able to visit a local museum, which had been closed since March. Masks, limited people, and many favorite, hands-on type activities weren’t available, but, they got to go.

On Monday, we’d gone (all masked up) to Big Lots to purchase items for a Family Resource Pantry that our church helps stock. We had a list, we checked things off, and we also bought several other things that caught his fancy that he wanted, snacks for us, tea for his mom, and a small Transformer vehicle. After everything had been bagged up, we pushed the cart out to my car and put everything in the trunk. Where it stayed, because we take turns with other churches, and our week was the next week. This keeps the space in the church that distributes the items from getting too overwhelmed with stuff. But I wanted him to take part in the helping aspect of this ministry.

“Here’s what we’ll do,” I said. “Right before we leave Waco next Monday, we’ll go by the place where all these things get dropped off. Then, we leave town and go to Fort Worth. That’s the plan.”

All the rest of the week, we hauled all the cereal boxes, bags of rice, bags of beans, cans of vegetables, soup, meats, bottles of shampoo, detergent, dish washing liquid, sticks of deodorant, etc, in my trunk, as we went around town.

Last Monday, I washed and dried all his clothes. We packed up all his stuff, and put the bags in the back seat, next to his booster seat (as the trunk was full of that Family Pantry stuff). We had to drive by the book drop at the library, and he returned the videos and books he gotten. Then, we went to the post office to mail a package.

“Now,” I said. “Here we go!” I drove off to get to the Interstate, and it wasn’t until we were just ready to get on I-35 that I said: “Oh, No!”

“What?” Peter said.

“The Family Pantry!” I wailed. “I completely forgot about the Family Pantry stuff.”

And, because of the epic highway construction that’s happening just a ways back towards town, it would have taken at least 20 minutes each way to get to that church and back to where we were.

So we went on to Fort Worth. I dropped Peter off at his house and visited for a short while, then got back on the road, and drove all that stuff back to Waco. Wednesday, I dropped it off at that church, where it will all get sorted and boxed up and delivered to families.

 

Never give up. Eagerly follow the Holy Spirit and serve the Lord.

Romans 12:11 (Contemporary English Version)

Wen time fo work hard, no be lazy. Make shua yoa heart show dat you go all out! Work fo da Boss.

Fo Da Rome Peopo 12:11 (Hawai’i Pidgin)

 

As we were checking out at Big Lots, another employee came over to help bag up our stuff. Just as the checker was almost done, I pulled out my wallet and retrieved a coupon I’d gotten online. “Oh!” she said. And the other guy looked a little startled, too. “I got it online,” I said, wondering if I’d not paid attention to a date or something. But, it seems that I should have presented the coupon at the beginning of the checkout process.

“We’ll just take everything out of the bags and rescan them,” they said.

“Oh, no,” I said. “We’re not going to do that. That’s ‘way too much trouble.” But they insisted. And I insisted. And I checked the expiration date on the coupon.

“This is good for a couple of weeks, still,” I said. And I explained that I would be back in a couple of weeks to purchase these same things, again.

“This is for a Family Resource Pantry that my church participates in. When I come back, this coupon won’t have expired. I’ll use it, then.”

And they agreed. And I’m sure they were really relieved, to not have to re-scan ALL THOSE CANS! ALL THOSE BAGS! ALL THOSE BOXES!

 

The Royal Purple

I’ve mentioned before (a couple of years ago) about the amount of yarn that I got when David’s mother passed away. She was quite a yarn shopper and yarn hoarder. And also quite a knitter.

Over several weeks time, I took bags of yarn to my knitting group until almost all of it was carried away by delighted knitters and crocheters. I did keep a little bit of it for myself. I have several skeins of beautiful green that I cannot decide, still, what to do with. And there’s some blue I like. And, there’s some purple.

A friend of mine really likes purple and I thought I’d make a cowl for her. I had two kinds of purple yarn. One was lovely and soft and wool, and, therefore, a little itchy. When I held it up to my cheek, it was rather uncomfortable. It went into the Goodwill bag. The other one was just as soft and just as beautiful, but was acrylic and not at all itchy, so that’s the one I went with.

I found a pattern that I liked in one of my knitting books. I checked the suggested needle size and, of course, didn’t have the right one and had to go buy one. But, now, if I get another beautiful piece of yarn, I can make a cozy cowl for someone else. Or for me.

The nice thing about knitting is that I can sit around watching movies or television programs and not feel like I’m wasting time. I’m knitting!! I’m making a gift! The pattern is easy, and, since it’s a cowl, it’s just pretty much knitting around and around and around, without having to think, the way one has to if they’re making a sweater, for example. Those things have necks and armholes and you have to make sleeves, too, and, really, a cowl seems like the way to go.

I knitted my way through Hamilton and, yesterday, I discovered a movie, Downfall, about the last days of the Third Reich. I thought that sounded like something that would be interesting while I was trying to knit my way through to the end of the cowl. I started the movie and discovered, to my dismay, that everyone is actually speaking German. Yes, German. Which meant subtitles. Fortunately, I was just knitting around in a circle, and I managed. Except that I became more and more infuriated by those Nazis. But, I did finish the knitting.

I did have to weave in some ends, as there were two small skeins of the purple, and so I had to weave in the ends of those and the beginning and end of the berry stripes. But, now, TA-DAH, I’m done. It’s all ready to pack up and mail off to my friend. It will be a few months until the weather’s chilly enough to need to wear it. Maybe she’ll send me a photo of herself on a blustery, cowl-wearing day!

 

During the night, Paul had a vision of someone from Macedonia who was standing there and begging him, “Come over to Macedonia and help us!” After Paul had seen the vision, we began looking for a way to go to Macedonia. We were sure that God had called us to preach the good news there. We sailed straight from Troas to Samothrace, and the next day we arrived in Neapolis.  From there we went to Philippi, which is a Roman colony in the first district of Macedonia. We spent several days in Philippi.  Then on the Sabbath we went outside the city gate to a place by the river, where we thought there would be a Jewish meeting place for prayer. We sat down and talked with the women who came.  One of them was Lydia, who was from the city of Thyatira and sold expensive purple cloth. She was a worshiper of the Lord God, and he made her willing to accept what Paul was saying.  Then after she and her family were baptized, she kept on begging us, “If you think I really do have faith in the Lord, come stay in my home.” Finally, we accepted her invitation.

Acts 16:12-15 (Contemporary English Version)


From the History web site:

“The reason for purple’s regal reputation comes down to a simple case of supply and demand. For centuries, the purple dye trade was centered in the ancient Phoenician city of Tyre in modern day Lebanon. The Phoenicians’ “Tyrian purple” came from a species of sea snail now known as Bolinus brandaris, and it was so exceedingly rare that it became worth its weight in gold. To harvest it, dye-makers had to crack open the snail’s shell, extract a purple-producing mucus and expose it to sunlight for a precise amount of time. It took as many as 250,000 mollusks to yield just one ounce of usable dye, but the result was a vibrant and long-lasting shade of purple.

The royal class’ purple monopoly finally waned after the fall of the Byzantine empire in the 15th century, but the color didn’t become more widely available until the 1850s, when the first synthetic dyes hit the market.”

So, these days, we’re saving the lives of those little snails. And possibly, we should be spending more time down at the river. Who knows who might turn up.

 

Who Touched My Clothes?

To my contemporaries: Remember when we used to really dress up when we went to church? We had Sunday clothes and Sunday shoes and almost all the men wore suits and ties, and the women wore stockings and high heeled shoes. And hats!!

Thank goodness we’ve moved on.

Maybe in some churches, things are still rather formal. At our church (and in most churches I’ve been in over the past few years), we are a place where church folk can be comfortable and feel at home in more casual clothes. Clothes that are comfortable. Clothes that might cost less than dressy outfits and shoes. Clothes that do not have to be dry-cleaned. I can’t recall the last time I saw a man with a tie.

And, if I wore clothes that had to go to the dry-cleaners regularly, I would not be able to be a Sunday School teacher. A preschool Sunday School room is ‘way too messy for the wearing of silks and woolens.
Over the years, I’ve had the experience of looking down at my skirt, moments before walking up to the platform to read Scripture, and noticing a swath of purple paint across the hem.

I have sat in a pew and reached up to straighten my collar and felt the crusty, dried, results of a runny nose, wiped across my shoulder, deposited by a weeping child who felt left behind when her Mom and Dad went on to their own Sunday School room.

I have held, in my lap, a kid who seemed to be feeling a little poorly, and then felt the warmth of that “feeling poorly” run down my back.

I have, in a pale yellow dress, backed up to our drying rack, which held a painting that, in Early Childhood terms, is called Preschool Brown (the result of painting with great exuberance, using all the colors of paint available).
What’s happened to my clothes?!?

Now there was a woman who had been suffering from hemorrhages for twelve years. She had endured much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had; and she was no better, but rather grew worse.  She had heard about Jesus, and came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak,  for she said, “If I but touch his clothes, I will be made well.”  Immediately her hemorrhage stopped; and she felt in her body that she was healed of her disease. Immediately aware that power had gone forth from him, Jesus turned about in the crowd and said, “Who touched my clothes?”  And his disciples said to him, “You see the crowd pressing in on you; how can you say, ‘Who touched me?’”

Mark 5:25-31 (New Revised Standard Version)

 

Getting close to folks means that we make a difference in their lives. These days, getting “close” can be more difficult. I feel frustrated by not really being able to smile at people. I’m nodding to people, and sometimes even saying, “I’m smiling at you,” to someone who holds a door for me or nods as we pass.
I was hurrying into Walgreens this morning, wanting to pick up a photo I needed. As I walked from my car, I saw a woman coming out of the store. With her mask on. MASK! I’d rushed out of the car and had forgotten mine. I turned around and went back for it. She’d had several bags to put in the car and was just getting in as I passed her car on my way back. I stopped a second to say, “I’m so glad I saw you coming out. I’d forgotten my mask!” She laughed and said, “Yeah. It’s different now.”
“Who touched my clothes?” “Who touched me?” Those questions seem harder to respond to right now. We’re not supposed to get quite so physically close as we might have a few months ago. No shaking hands. No hugs. Six feet apart seems like quite a distance. We’re being challenged to find ways for contact that are different from the usual. And aren’t we looking forward to the time when we can look back and say, “Wow. That was something, wasn’t it! But we made it through.”

 

Not Helpful/Helpful

I needed a new phone. I liked my phone, but it was becoming more and more erratic. I’d plug it in to recharge overnight, when it might be at 17% power, or so. Then, when I got up in the morning, it might be at 20% power. Or, 15% power. I’d assume that I’d just not pushed the charger end in adequately, and I’d try again, even though I’d been counting on its being fully charged, as I was headed outside to do some yard work and wanted to listen to a book. Some days, it would charge completely, and other days, not much at all.

Kevin and April and Peter came for Father’s Day (and a few days early, to work on that garage storage stuff). I talked to Kevin about the problem, and he said it sounded like I needed a new phone. And, his idea was that, when I brought Peter (who was staying with us for several days after Kevin and April went back to Fort Worth) back home, we could go to the Apple store.

April said why didn’t we just go to the AT&T store, right here in Waco. Kevin said that the Apple store was so wonderful and had so many interesting, exciting things to see, and, as long as I was coming up anyway, we might as well go there. That’s the plan we made.

Kevin called me a couple of days before I was bringing Peter home and said that the Apple store requires making an appointment to come in, and would that be all right, and I said “sure,” so he said he’d make the appointment. Then, when I took Peter back, Kevin said that, well, you can’t actually go into an Apple store unless you have a problem or need a repair, and, yes, we were going to have to go to the Fort Worth AT&T store to get the phone. And, yes, indeed, April was right. We did go to the Fort Worth AT&T store, where I got a new phone.

They didn’t have much of a variety of phone cases for my phone, so I didn’t get one there. When I got back to Waco, I stopped at Target, where I’d gotten the case for my previous phone, which was a lovely pink, and the case was clear on the back, so the lovely back showed. At Target, there was only one case labeled for my phone, and it was really unattractive. The next morning, I headed out to look other places. April had said that she’d sometimes gotten phone cases at Best Buy, so I tried there. They had lots and lots of phone cases, but I couldn’t find a single one that was labeled for my phone. I walked around, all bent over, because nothing was at my eye level, and, while there were several staff people there, no one seemed available to help me find what I needed. And, there was a guy doing some repairs, or maybe changing lightbulbs, on a scissor lift, and every time he had to move the lift, he was (I suppose) required to sound a warning beep, to let nearby folks know he was moving. It was a LOUD warning beep. And it was going off every three or four minutes. And I finally had to leave. Too much noise. Not enough employees to be able to help. No cases for my phone.

I left and went next door to an Office Depot store. It was much quieter there, and the employees were just as helpful as the ones at Best Buy. And, I couldn’t find any cases that were labeled for my phone. As I left the store, I thought that I should just go over to the Waco AT&T store, where I thought there were would at least be the same couple of cases that had been available at the Fort Worth store.

But, first, I needed to go to Wal-Mart, which was on the way. I had a variety of items on my list, and, before I headed to the grocery area, I walked past the electronics area at the back of the store and thought, maybe they have phone cases. And, of course they did. I went to one of the cases labeled “iPhone” and bent over to start looking. Before I had read the label of a single case, an employee was at my side. “Can I help,” she said. I said I needed a case for my phone, but I’d not been able to find one identified as being for my phone. And she said, “Oh, these cases here will work with your phone,” and she pointed to a whole row of cases that, while labeled for one kind of phone, would also work with mine. “Which one do you like?” I chose one of the several cases there.

I said, “Great, I like this one.” And she said, “Are you comfortable checking out back here (in that department)?” And I said, “Sure.” And in about three minutes we were done. I guess I’ve been selling Wal-Mart short when it comes to customer service.

 

She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

Proverbs 31: 18, 26 (New International Version)

 

Standing on your feet all day, trying to help a wide clientele of shoppers, knowing all the characteristics of all the products, staying happy, engaged, and informative, well, it just cannot be all that easy. I certainly hope it’s fulfilling.